Well I won't make too many comparisons here about the similarities of how to train your man and animals.
There isn't that much difference! I have dogs and in the past horses too, and the principle is the same - positive reinforcement!
Don't just take my word for it, T W Jackson uses these psychological tricks in his
very successful Magic of Making Up system too.
You’ve heard of Pavlov’s Dog? Ivan Pavlov was a Russian psychologist who conducted an experiment to show that dogs could be trained to salivate on a cue. Over time the dogs became accustomed to hearing a noise before eating and would salivate when they heard the noise again, even if there was no food.
Now, I am not saying your man is a dog! But these conditioned responses can be useful when you want to
psychologically train your man.
Try these psychological tricks to train your man
1. When your man is occupied with his latest gadget totally ignore him. Don’t speak to him or try and get his attention in any way.
2. When he stops playing with his latest gadget, or speaks to you, reward him with a smile or a hug
By ignoring behaviour you don’t want your man to do and rewarding the behaviour you like then you will start to affect his decisions subconsciously. He wont even
realize you are doing it! By using positive reinforcement you can
psychologically train your man to stop his bad habits.
You want to spend more time with your man?
Carefully plan out time slots to do activities that you both enjoy. Make them light hearted, fun and flirty. That way you unconsciously train your man to learn that being with you is fun so he will want to spend even more time with you.
The "trick" is to keep your plans upbeat and positive. Don't nag or moan about not spending enough time together. Nagging is a negative response which will train your man to think of pain and earache when he see's you!
Ask him what his opinion is or what he thinks of the plans, not how he feels. Men are weird when it comes to talking about feelings of any kind, but love to give an opinion!
Positive reinforcement is the
key when trying to train your man. Focus
on the actions you love and reward him.
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