You have followed all the advice so far on how to get back together. Your ex boyfriend calls, he wants to meet up. How are you feeling? Excited? Nervous? Terrified? Ecstatic?
You have stayed strong and made it this far in your plan to get your ex boyfriend back, do not blow it now. Remember to breathe, stay calm and organise yourself.
Dating your ex boyfriend again is a strange situation, you know each other so well, but there are still break up bad feelings. How do you handle your first reconciliation date with your ex?
Here are some tips for dating your ex boyfriend.
1. You are keen to get back together, but remember your first date with your ex is to test the water. Plan to meet your ex boyfriend somewhere you feel comfortable and relaxed. Avoid places that bring back too many emotions for the first date, you need to stay levelheaded. Pick somewhere new to you both so that you are on neutral territory.
2. Meeting your ex face to face is harder than exchanging calls and texts and you may find yourself struggling for things to talk about that don’t rake up bad feelings. Plan a short first date. A lunch meeting is ideal. Having a time constraint because you have to go back to work or on to an appointment etc ensures that the meeting will end quickly, hopefully leaving you both wanting more.
3. On your first date with your ex boyfriend, avoid talking about the relationship break up. You don’t want to be dragged into talking about past arguments and fights. If your ex boyfriend wants to talk about your past relationship that’s a good sign he is serious about getting back together. Keep steering the conversation to focus on the good times you had together.
4. Enjoy your first date keep things light and fun. Try not to get too heavy, yes, you missed him and it is ok to tell him that. Try not to become over emotional and throw yourself back at him! In fact, while it is ok to be flirty, do not go overboard on any physical contact. Leave him pinning for more.
5. Most importantly, pay attention to your ex boyfriend throughout your date. Turn off your phone so that you have no distractions. Look for signs that your ex boyfriend is prepared to get back together again and isn’t just looking for no ties sex. Yes that does happen, men are sexual beings after all. Watch how he speaks to you, his body language and mannerisms. Is he ready to move forward and start repairing your relationship?
Do you know the tell tale signs that your ex boyfriend is ready to get back together?
No? Then you need a great ex back guide.
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